WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.520 --> 00:00:02.659 Alright. So 2 00:00:03.439 --> 00:00:06.580 when you're trying to affect change in your business, in your life, 3 00:00:07.600 --> 00:00:11.715 we can be matter trying to change matter. Meaning, like, we're okay. 4 00:00:11.715 --> 00:00:15.655 I gotta do this thing, and I gotta like, we're working at that level of 5 00:00:16.720 --> 00:00:19.440 of, like, what are the things that I need to do? 6 00:00:19.440 --> 00:00:24.880 And then you do the thing and then you get the result and all that. That's great. That's awesome. 7 00:00:24.880 --> 00:00:25.619 It works. 8 00:00:26.115 --> 00:00:26.615 But 9 00:00:27.315 --> 00:00:31.975 it's a lot of work. It's a lot of work. It's a lot of effort. It takes time. It's slow. 10 00:00:32.674 --> 00:00:34.295 What if we could operate 11 00:00:34.990 --> 00:00:39.010 in a much more sort of less Newtonian and more Einsteinian 12 00:00:39.470 --> 00:00:45.535 way? Do you know what I'm saying? It's like it's like in most of our lives we operate as if Newton, 13 00:00:46.715 --> 00:00:51.214 was all that existed and Einstein never lived. We live our lives as if 14 00:00:52.000 --> 00:00:58.180 Einstein just never came around and and realized the things that he realized about how the nature of reality. 15 00:00:59.055 --> 00:01:00.355 So what if 16 00:01:01.055 --> 00:01:03.715 we could put out in the field 17 00:01:04.575 --> 00:01:06.995 what we want to have to experience, 18 00:01:07.695 --> 00:01:10.380 the the thought of what we want to have happen, 19 00:01:10.680 --> 00:01:13.020 the feeling of how we want to feel, 20 00:01:13.480 --> 00:01:17.100 and then open our heart and actually receive it. What if we could do that? 21 00:01:17.240 --> 00:01:20.174 And what if that would actually put things in motion 22 00:01:20.715 --> 00:01:26.560 so that we would start to receive and feel the things that we want, that we'd start to experience the things that we want in our lives? 23 00:01:26.560 --> 00:01:28.899 We start to feel the feelings that we wanna feel 24 00:01:29.200 --> 00:01:30.659 and we would actually receive 25 00:01:31.119 --> 00:01:35.700 what it is that we're looking to receive. And that, my friends, is freaking 26 00:01:36.475 --> 00:01:36.975 possible. 27 00:01:37.595 --> 00:01:41.375 It really is. So I think the way that it works is that 28 00:01:42.315 --> 00:01:47.010 the reason we want anything in life is because we wanna feel a certain way. 29 00:01:47.390 --> 00:01:51.010 Yeah. Like, we want things because we wanna feel something. 30 00:01:52.430 --> 00:01:57.774 That's why we don't have a business or we wanna make make money, that's why we wanna make love, that's why we wanna have relationship, 31 00:01:58.075 --> 00:02:02.975 and that's why we wanna do everything. Anything is because of the feeling you want us to give us. 32 00:02:03.409 --> 00:02:05.030 However, the thing is that 33 00:02:05.409 --> 00:02:06.950 we are oftentimes 34 00:02:08.690 --> 00:02:10.949 very stuck in certain habitual 35 00:02:11.765 --> 00:02:12.985 feelings and emotions. 36 00:02:13.525 --> 00:02:18.105 We go to the same feelings over and over again and we have internal resistance 37 00:02:27.745 --> 00:02:29.925 actually practicing feeling those feelings, 38 00:02:31.185 --> 00:02:33.364 what we do is we make up excuses. 39 00:02:34.224 --> 00:02:42.040 We claim to be victims of circumstance and we say, well, I can't feel that way because I don't have that result in my life, 40 00:02:42.660 --> 00:02:43.160 because 41 00:02:44.084 --> 00:02:48.105 my business, my clients, my spouse, my parents, my the weather, the whatever. 42 00:02:48.405 --> 00:02:49.385 Because circumstances, 43 00:02:49.845 --> 00:02:52.910 I can't feel this way and so I have to know 44 00:02:54.030 --> 00:02:59.410 not just blame circumstances but also change circumstances so then I can feel that way. 45 00:02:59.870 --> 00:03:06.605 But what if the reality is that we actually could feel that way today, but we have resistance towards it? 46 00:03:06.905 --> 00:03:11.600 We're just not quite willing to. Maybe there's a victim story we don't wanna give up. 47 00:03:12.060 --> 00:03:15.820 Maybe it's just, like, not a a feeling that we're comfortable with. 48 00:03:15.820 --> 00:03:23.675 Maybe there is a, sometimes there can be a feeling that that you're kind of in free fall, that, like, if you really allow yourself to feel 49 00:03:24.670 --> 00:03:31.010 alive and empowered and joyful and free and all the things that you say that you want to feel, 50 00:03:31.395 --> 00:03:32.535 that you would feel guilty, 51 00:03:32.835 --> 00:03:36.455 or you would feel that you'd lost grounding, or that you would feel 52 00:03:37.235 --> 00:03:42.900 that that you're kind of in free fall and you're just or you're just, like, it was too crazy or something like that. 53 00:03:43.280 --> 00:03:43.780 Usually, 54 00:03:44.240 --> 00:03:50.655 there's a programming I used to have this thing where if someone pointed out to me that I was happy, I would instantly become unhappy. 55 00:03:51.115 --> 00:03:54.495 Because I had a programming, I had a conditioning, a coding that said, 56 00:03:55.435 --> 00:03:57.295 unhappy is bad, it's dangerous. 57 00:03:57.879 --> 00:04:03.659 As a kid, I experienced if I was too happy, it would trigger my dad and then he would smack down hard on me and say, 58 00:04:04.200 --> 00:04:05.435 find something I'd done wrong. 59 00:04:05.995 --> 00:04:09.855 Something to take me down a notch because happy was threatening to him emotionally. 60 00:04:10.395 --> 00:04:12.735 Yeah. He didn't let himself be happy and joyful. 61 00:04:13.390 --> 00:04:16.610 And so we tend to have these programming. So what if instead 62 00:04:17.070 --> 00:04:18.450 you could go practice 63 00:04:18.990 --> 00:04:25.335 how you actually would love to feel, would like to feel, and start practicing just feeling that way. 64 00:04:25.635 --> 00:04:26.935 And as you do, 65 00:04:27.395 --> 00:04:28.455 you think about 66 00:04:28.915 --> 00:04:30.695 this area of your life, your business, 67 00:04:31.849 --> 00:04:37.469 your marketing, your business, whatever it is, your revenue growth, you think about how would I like to feel 68 00:04:38.090 --> 00:04:45.784 about this area of my life, this area of my business and you go practice feeling that way while you put out the thought of actually 69 00:04:46.884 --> 00:04:51.520 experiencing that, of this happening without too much detail but just focus on the feeling. 70 00:04:52.060 --> 00:04:58.159 And then you've opened your heart and you feel gratitude of this already being true, of this already being there. 71 00:04:59.025 --> 00:05:01.205 And then you start watching things 72 00:05:02.145 --> 00:05:03.764 shift. This my friend 73 00:05:04.224 --> 00:05:04.724 is 74 00:05:05.264 --> 00:05:07.525 magic. This is power. 75 00:05:08.410 --> 00:05:12.830 It's taken me a long time to really learn, really understand, really get 76 00:05:14.490 --> 00:05:15.310 but since 77 00:05:15.930 --> 00:05:17.310 I really got it 78 00:05:18.585 --> 00:05:20.525 my life has dramatically changed. 79 00:05:20.825 --> 00:05:23.885 This is where the power lies. 80 00:05:24.425 --> 00:05:25.965 So go practice this. 81 00:05:26.560 --> 00:05:28.500 Make it a daily practice. 82 00:05:29.360 --> 00:05:34.340 Make it your ritual. Make it the most important thing that you do in your day because it is. 83 00:05:34.880 --> 00:05:37.865 And then let me know how that impacts you. 84 00:05:38.245 --> 00:05:44.370 I love you and I want you to feel all the things that you most wanna feel. And, I know you can. 85 00:05:44.370 --> 00:05:47.670 And, I know you will. Love you. See you soon. Bye.